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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

12.06.2025 03:44

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

I was very sick at this time too.

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.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

I never cut or harmed myself..

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

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As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

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But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

He knew the spot.

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

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Put me off passion for life!!

They are buried together, in the same grave..

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

Do narcissists love their children?

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

But ive been too sick for many years..

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But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

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His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

But, we were locked up after school.

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

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But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

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As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

My mum and dad in the seventies!

Who then, do I blame.?

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And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

On the 31st of Jan this month .

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

She wouldn,t have been !

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

I will be 64.

It was going to be , some day.

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

But it wasn’t much.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

She loved him until the end.

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

What did i know ?

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

I could never make a relationship work though!

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

Im still living with it.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

Ive learnt so much.

This is how, and why children get BPD.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

She was in good health!

As i do to all so called friends.?

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

I was scared of men, in general

So whats the point in blame.

I waited trembling.

I said to her

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

I have no regrets .

And who doesn’t know suffering?

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

I couldn’t, believe it.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

The only rule us 5 kids had .

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

When she asked me how she looked .

He resisted the act ,that day.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

One cannot live in the past .

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

Im dying but, im not bitter.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

My family never makes their pension either.

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

Comes on , in middle age.

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

This is soul school!.

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

I write beautiful poetry .

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

Why did i forgive my father ?

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

Where the ultimate outsiders.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

I think the readers, may guess!

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

Especially a lifetime of it.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

And i lived it daily.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

I don,t even have a pension.

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

(And it was in our own minds.)

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

I did it because my mum asked me too!

We all went to grammer schools

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

We were not on the streets..

I was 9 years of age.

She found it foreign!.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

She married twice! .

All the time i was locked up.

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

So, i spoilt her more .

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

I was seconnd youngest,

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

My life is so biszare .

Was to survive, this bastard.

Would this be the day?

I had hoped to write a book about this .

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years